I recently had lunch with a great friend of mine. I always consider it an honor with someone I care about calls me and asks me to lunch because they respect my opinion. We had some great conversations through the lunch, but one of the great reminders that I received was a good goal setting reminder. It is one of my beliefs that you can’t get somewhere when you don’t know where you are going. I even like to use the example of when you get in your car, how will you get to where you’re going if you don’t have an end goal in mind?
The first step in goal setting is to think of what you want and write it down. It sounds easy, but you would be surprised on how many people have not taken this step. Use this as an exercise to think of as many things that you want, and write them all down.
Let’s do this… I’m going to write a few topics to consider, and I’d like for you to take a few minutes to think about what you want to accomplish in your life.
Do you want to own a home or homes?
Do you want a new car?
Do you want to make a certain amount of money?
Do you want to be worth a certain amount of money?
Do you want to have a family?
Are there certain things that you would like to accomplish with your family?
Is there someplace that you would like to go?
Is there someone that you would like to meet?
Is there a vacation that you’ve always wanted to take?
Have you always wanted a certain type of wardrobe?
Is there a certain job that you’ve always wanted?
Do you want to work with a certain company?
Do you want to own your own business?
Do you want to join a certain social community?
Do you want to make more friends?
Do you want to do more with charity?
Would you like to be more involved in your church or community?
If nothing else, take just one minute and write down one goal today. You’ll be surprised how much it will impact the things that you do.
I know a lot of people that write down daily lists of things to accomplish. This in itself is a list of goals. Think about how much more productive you are when you make a list of things to do as opposed to when you attack a day with no goal in mind. Jim Rohn says, “Don’t start the day before the day is finished. Don’t start the week before the week is finished.” He also says it’s a good idea to plan out your month and year, but of course these are much more difficult. At least have an outline so you can plan out time for your personal and professional life.
This is such a simple thing to do, and yet, many people don’t do it. Why? Because it’s easier NOT to do it! Take a minute and set a few goals for yourself!